The Reflections from God's Mirror

Why women reject low-status men

Andrew Tate may be a grifter, a manufactured media figure, and a gatekeeping tool, but that doesn’t mean everything that has ever come out of his mouth is incorrect.

Women hate you because you deserve to be hated. Women are God’s mirror - reminding you of your monumental failure.

It sounds a little harsh, to be sure. But that’s irrelevant, the more important question is the extent to which it is true, as Fictional Influence points out that women tend to regard being connected to a sub-standard man to be a fate worse than death.

Wretched man though he is, Tate has at least three takes a year that hit the mark. In this case, he has accurately called out (in aggressive and overly simplistic language) why many men face rejection from women over and over and over.

Because they suck…

You are asking her to consider making you a reflection of who she is and her status in society for the foreseeable future.

Remember this guy?

Colloquially known as “Tinder Guy,” this man, who I know nothing about, made the news for swiping right 2 million times on Tinder, and securing only one date out of it. Men on the internet used his case to illustrate why dating apps are useless for finding relationships (true), that they favor women who are seeking attention and simps (true), and how only a tiny fraction of highly attractive men can expect success (also true).

But some commenters got very angry at the women attempting to explain why they would have swiped left too. I won’t list them all because only one is important for this conversation.

This man will embarrass any woman he’s with.

And no woman will willingly sign up for that. No matter how “looks-matched” you say she is.

I’ve advised men attempting to improve their perceived status to stop attempting to appear attractive and instead focusing on becoming genuinely awesome. The unfortunate reality is that most men spend absolutely zero time on even attempting to improve themselves in any way, and spending just twenty minutes in the gym, or $30 on a nicer shirt, is completely beyond them.

So perhaps a more useful piece of advice, at least for the low-status men, is to focus on how to not be embarrassing to a potential future girlfriend. My suggestion is to do the following:

1. Make a list of the behaviors you know to be suboptimal.

2. Ask one male friend and one female friend to make a list of your behaviors that they might consider to be embarrassing in public. Tell them to be absolutely brutal. DO NOT SHOW THEM OR EVEN MENTION YOUR LIST. And don’t try to explain away or defend anything they put on their lists.

3. Combine the three lists into one list, and ask a different male friend and a different female friend to rank the behaviors from most to least embarrassing.

4. Start working at transforming or eliminating those behaviors, beginning with the most problematic.

Maybe don’t ask the hot redhead to do it. Her list will likely be longer than most.

Here’s a very easy place to start that would have served Mr. Two Million Swipes well. Don’t wear vulgar or sexually provocative t-shirts. That has never worked for any man, ever, in the entire history of sexual relations since clothing was first invented.