Point, Counterpoint
Solipsistic men and women are mirrors
Never, in the entire history of the human race, has any man not been attracted to a woman because he is intimidated by her. Never, in the entire history of the human race, has a woman not been attracted to a man because she finds him too intimidating, regardless of the cause.
Here is a useful rule of thumb. It’s even written in rhyme to make it easier to remember.
If you can’t find anyone to date
You, yourself, you overrate.
As a general rule, women overrate the appeal of their educations and their jobs. And men overrate the appeal of their intelligence as well as the appeal of the degree of their attaction, devotion, and loyalty. Remember, just because it’s important to you doesn’t mean it matters in the slightest to even one single member of the opposite sex.
"If you can't find anyone to date
You, yourself, you overrate."
Idle too long, and you'll be too late.
I always assumed(in hindsight, incorrectly) that I wasn't very attractive, so I decided to learn other skills that would be attractive, like massage, cooking, playing with kids and babies, and be up for learning a new skill/activity that interested my significant other. Now, my best memories are cooking and making limoncello with my husband while playing a new game ☺️ Corporate careers seem so boring.