No. The compassion is their natural instinct. Men think it's all about sexual attraction, but a lot of what women feel for these fucked up men is a bug in their nurturing instinct. It's why so many women love dogs if they don't have children. Used to be cats but dogs these days ... anyway; if not literal dogs, this kind.
Whole situation is awful, but something stood out to me:
"DESPITE being twice Nicole's age, Tainui had become obsessed with my daughter."
Even in the darkest hours of grief, the hamster wheel spins. Why would a man in his fifties ever pine for a 25 year-old woman? Total mystery. We may never know.
By the time a conversation is started, one is already offering a second appraisal. Instincts and gut reactions are the gamma's first chance. Prior to entering uni, my father dropped a story about a family friend whose daughter was killed by a classmate turned stalker, with the line "all she did was be nice to him".
I take my daughters with me for martial arts. I love our teacher, who teaches them to use the most brutal tactics possible if they are in an altercation with a man. Eye gouges, tear off the ear, use keys to poke in their eyeball, groin kick, you name it. I've never had a firearm for myself, but now that they are getting old enough to use one, I think I like the idea.
It would be a lot more effective to teach them to not be nice to Gammas and minorities or allow themselves to be alone with them. A single punch from even a weak man is sufficient to render a trained woman helpless.
Absolutely 100%. And fortunately they have good instincts, as they are not in the public school system they haven't been brainwashed. I also like it that our instructor also does a great job teaching on not being in the wrong place and listening to your instincts, which reinforces this.
There are at least two kids books I’ve read in which there is a dangerous predator (a shark in one, and constrictor snake in the other) who is made into a vegan and thus "safe" to the other animals who would otherwise be their food.
Upon reading these books, my gut told me that they are tools for breaking children's predator detection.
You should never ignore your gut; just because you can't articulate why something is off doesn't mean you're wrong.
When I was around 21, I was walking home from work at around 11pm, (at the time I was at university and working in a restaurant in the evenings). I was carrying my dry cleaning and listening to music with headphones in. A man approached me and it seemed as if he was asking for directions, as I took my headphones out, he started to beat the living daylights out of me and dragged me towards a park that was across the road. I screamed so much that someone shouted “Shut Up” from their window which ironically helped me as the man loosened his grip at the voice. In that split second, I manage to dislodge myself and run. Later, when my father found out, I have never seen a man howl in pain like that. From then on, any night I was working he would turn up at the end of my shift and walk me to my apartment. He and my brother also knocked on every door of the houses on that street and asked if they’d heard my shrieking. Before this, he was the dad in High school that would pick me up from parties in his PJs because he didn’t want me taking taxis and he’d drop all my friends home too.
Now I’m almost 40 and have been with my husband for 16 years and my father has early dementia but when I visit my parents and stay with them, he will still want to pick me up when I go out and will insist on waiting up for me. He once checked on me in the guest room 8 times during the night as he kept forgetting that I had returned. All this to say I have a wonderfully over protective father and I no longer stop and help strangers (men) asking for directions. I also call my husband if I’m alone in an uber or taxi and make him talk to me the whole way which he finds over zealous and irritating but once you’ve had a situation you become hyper vigilant.
Similar experience. Was a bit older though and only screamed and fought because I'd been subjected to hours of special forces documentaries by ex-boyfriend and a "what do do if you're kidnapped" special after 9/11 that I always remember. Fight like hell, do not stop screaming until you're in a car or alone and can't escape, then fawn but tell them your name and try to get their name, always use it. Because we lack physical strength we have to rely on psychological tactics.
Not in the context of a relationship, but I and a number of other people were browbeaten into voting in what was in retrospect an obviously gamma pastor despite things seeming "off." It ruined the church and is something I count as one of the worst decisions of my life because I did precisely what Vox is describing in this post.
"Everyone deserves a second chance!" Predators love this naive notion from people, and they see it as easy a mark as ever. NO! Never ever ever, not everyone, and few people EVER deserve a second chance.
Explain the “interracial” thing at the end there. Not for argument’s sake, I’m actually curious as a man in a 20+ year interracial marriage. The interreligious thing I understand, as religions and cultures can be quite incompatible
First. there is a 98 percent chance that a white woman who has a child with a black man will not be financially supported by the father. Few young women know that's what they are signing up for.
Second, a white woman in an interracial relationship faces a much higher likelihood of experiencing domestic violence, at a rate very similar to being in a monoracial black relationship, which is around 40 percent.
Are you seriously going to pretend you didn't know these things?
Oh, I won’t pretend. I didn’t know the statistics mainly because my brother and I who are married to white women neither abandoned nor abused our wives or our now adult children (unlike our own father, whose wife is black). Also, living in a rural area with two colleges, I’ve seen both sides of this equation. I’ve seen enough black men who stay with their white women and raise their kids, as well as enough single white mothers with biracial children. The statistics are interesting; where can I find the source?
I don't play the SOURCE? game here. Now you know they exist, you can find them on your own, and if you are so inclined, quibble with the responsible scientists.
Both the blessing and the curse of growing up in a high-trust society is that, having been relatively sheltered from the worst instincts of one's fellow humans, it becomes far too easy for women especially to believe that nobody is really that bad.
Those kinds of women, women with limousine liberal beliefs, get it very well. When they talk ill of local diversity, but experience very little of it, and still marry tall and handsome men, then they know what they're doing. She has high status when she's successful and doesn't confuse actual beliefs with luxury beliefs.
This is going to come to pass soon enough, as we simply won't have the material resources to do otherwise. Corporal punishment, like in Singapore, may come back into vogue, as it is extremely cheap to administer.
In some places (such as where I live) you can't get hold of a pistol unless you are a policeman or a soldier. So ladies, you have to go out with your dad or your brother. Who has your permission to percussively re programme any gamma-tude or trans-racial harassment.
No. The compassion is their natural instinct. Men think it's all about sexual attraction, but a lot of what women feel for these fucked up men is a bug in their nurturing instinct. It's why so many women love dogs if they don't have children. Used to be cats but dogs these days ... anyway; if not literal dogs, this kind.
Had a lib gamma who owns firearms ragequit at work. Needless to say I got a round in the chamber even at work if he decides to be a psycho someday
Whole situation is awful, but something stood out to me:
"DESPITE being twice Nicole's age, Tainui had become obsessed with my daughter."
Even in the darkest hours of grief, the hamster wheel spins. Why would a man in his fifties ever pine for a 25 year-old woman? Total mystery. We may never know.
By the time a conversation is started, one is already offering a second appraisal. Instincts and gut reactions are the gamma's first chance. Prior to entering uni, my father dropped a story about a family friend whose daughter was killed by a classmate turned stalker, with the line "all she did was be nice to him".
I take my daughters with me for martial arts. I love our teacher, who teaches them to use the most brutal tactics possible if they are in an altercation with a man. Eye gouges, tear off the ear, use keys to poke in their eyeball, groin kick, you name it. I've never had a firearm for myself, but now that they are getting old enough to use one, I think I like the idea.
It would be a lot more effective to teach them to not be nice to Gammas and minorities or allow themselves to be alone with them. A single punch from even a weak man is sufficient to render a trained woman helpless.
Absolutely 100%. And fortunately they have good instincts, as they are not in the public school system they haven't been brainwashed. I also like it that our instructor also does a great job teaching on not being in the wrong place and listening to your instincts, which reinforces this.
Vox, appreciate the tip; you're very right.
There are at least two kids books I’ve read in which there is a dangerous predator (a shark in one, and constrictor snake in the other) who is made into a vegan and thus "safe" to the other animals who would otherwise be their food.
Upon reading these books, my gut told me that they are tools for breaking children's predator detection.
You should never ignore your gut; just because you can't articulate why something is off doesn't mean you're wrong.
When I was around 21, I was walking home from work at around 11pm, (at the time I was at university and working in a restaurant in the evenings). I was carrying my dry cleaning and listening to music with headphones in. A man approached me and it seemed as if he was asking for directions, as I took my headphones out, he started to beat the living daylights out of me and dragged me towards a park that was across the road. I screamed so much that someone shouted “Shut Up” from their window which ironically helped me as the man loosened his grip at the voice. In that split second, I manage to dislodge myself and run. Later, when my father found out, I have never seen a man howl in pain like that. From then on, any night I was working he would turn up at the end of my shift and walk me to my apartment. He and my brother also knocked on every door of the houses on that street and asked if they’d heard my shrieking. Before this, he was the dad in High school that would pick me up from parties in his PJs because he didn’t want me taking taxis and he’d drop all my friends home too.
Now I’m almost 40 and have been with my husband for 16 years and my father has early dementia but when I visit my parents and stay with them, he will still want to pick me up when I go out and will insist on waiting up for me. He once checked on me in the guest room 8 times during the night as he kept forgetting that I had returned. All this to say I have a wonderfully over protective father and I no longer stop and help strangers (men) asking for directions. I also call my husband if I’m alone in an uber or taxi and make him talk to me the whole way which he finds over zealous and irritating but once you’ve had a situation you become hyper vigilant.
Similar experience. Was a bit older though and only screamed and fought because I'd been subjected to hours of special forces documentaries by ex-boyfriend and a "what do do if you're kidnapped" special after 9/11 that I always remember. Fight like hell, do not stop screaming until you're in a car or alone and can't escape, then fawn but tell them your name and try to get their name, always use it. Because we lack physical strength we have to rely on psychological tactics.
Not in the context of a relationship, but I and a number of other people were browbeaten into voting in what was in retrospect an obviously gamma pastor despite things seeming "off." It ruined the church and is something I count as one of the worst decisions of my life because I did precisely what Vox is describing in this post.
How was the church ruined?
That's true but it has far less recoil and far greater ammo capacity.
"Everyone deserves a second chance!" Predators love this naive notion from people, and they see it as easy a mark as ever. NO! Never ever ever, not everyone, and few people EVER deserve a second chance.
God can decide that, when they arrive early.
Explain the “interracial” thing at the end there. Not for argument’s sake, I’m actually curious as a man in a 20+ year interracial marriage. The interreligious thing I understand, as religions and cultures can be quite incompatible
"I’m actually curious" = "honest question"
"actually" = "actually"
Gamma indicators?
First. there is a 98 percent chance that a white woman who has a child with a black man will not be financially supported by the father. Few young women know that's what they are signing up for.
Second, a white woman in an interracial relationship faces a much higher likelihood of experiencing domestic violence, at a rate very similar to being in a monoracial black relationship, which is around 40 percent.
Are you seriously going to pretend you didn't know these things?
Oh, I won’t pretend. I didn’t know the statistics mainly because my brother and I who are married to white women neither abandoned nor abused our wives or our now adult children (unlike our own father, whose wife is black). Also, living in a rural area with two colleges, I’ve seen both sides of this equation. I’ve seen enough black men who stay with their white women and raise their kids, as well as enough single white mothers with biracial children. The statistics are interesting; where can I find the source?
You're either a woman or a gay larper claiming to be a black man. That's what my instincts told me, and I'm not going to ignore them.
I don't play the SOURCE? game here. Now you know they exist, you can find them on your own, and if you are so inclined, quibble with the responsible scientists.
Agree totally, go with your gut.
Learn to listen to it, it's hard because as Vox points out, we are conditioned to be rational and "fair".
Your instincts will save your bacon more often than not.
Don't regret acting on your gut reactions either, that thinking makes you circle back and open to being exploited, or worse.
No fury like a Gamma scorned.
This is the kind of thing that happens when you live in a society that preaches sympathy for the Devil.
It seems we want to see the best in the worst and the worst in the best. All rather inverted isn’t it?
Both the blessing and the curse of growing up in a high-trust society is that, having been relatively sheltered from the worst instincts of one's fellow humans, it becomes far too easy for women especially to believe that nobody is really that bad.
Those kinds of women, women with limousine liberal beliefs, get it very well. When they talk ill of local diversity, but experience very little of it, and still marry tall and handsome men, then they know what they're doing. She has high status when she's successful and doesn't confuse actual beliefs with luxury beliefs.
If you murder someone, you should be executed regardless of whether or not you "feel guilty", or whether it was premeditated or capricious.
This is going to come to pass soon enough, as we simply won't have the material resources to do otherwise. Corporal punishment, like in Singapore, may come back into vogue, as it is extremely cheap to administer.
Not if gamma judges have their way. Just look at all the nihilists progressives fighting so hard to keep ultra-violent illegals from being deported.
Selena Gomez can cry harder for all I care!
In some places (such as where I live) you can't get hold of a pistol unless you are a policeman or a soldier. So ladies, you have to go out with your dad or your brother. Who has your permission to percussively re programme any gamma-tude or trans-racial harassment.