How to Disqualify Yourself
A long list of things that women dislike
As I’ve repeatedly admonished, one simply can’t take what a woman says she finds attractive, or what she says women in general find attractive, at face value. There are far too many complications and variables involved to reach any reliable conclusions that are supported by the observable evidence.
On the other hand, I think women complaining anonymously about things they actively dislike can probably be trusted to some extent, especially when one can see certain patterns that tend to be very much in harmony with what we know about the SSH and some of the differences between high-status and low-status men.
Lack of respect for others, especially in how they talk and treat people, is an instant turn-off.
Lying over mundane things (usually leads to not communicating over things that could be considered confrontational)
When a guy’s always bragging or trying too hard to show off, it’s a major turn-off. Like, just be chill and genuine!
This applies to anyone really, but being super negative All. The. Time. Nothing is right, everyone else is the problem, they simply CANNOT just sit down and enjoy where they are and the people they're with.
Cruel to animals
Poor control over their anger.
Can’t do anything for himself. I’m talking basics like laundry and washing dishes, basic cleaning.
Littering, poor hygiene, lack of respect for people, places, the planet
"Jokingly" putting others down then saying "It was just a joke!" like it’s a get-out-of-jail-free card. Ewww
Interrupting me with a totally unrelated question or statement, blatantly not listening or showing interest in what I’m saying.
Act superior.
Negging. Or any of that other "pick up artist" bs
When a guy’s rude to waitstaff or anyone in service jobs. It’s a major red flag.
If constantly makes everything sexual. This has made me stop relationships with men in talking stages multiple times.
Thinks that others are below him.
Drinking too much
Getting angry over nothing.
A guy that is narcissist, self centered and always seeking of attention.
Lying, if you can lie so blatantly on little things imagine what you can do over big stuff.
Not knowing basic shit about household cleaning/maintenance and feeding himself.
This list is little more than an extended description of typical Gamma behaviors, with slight dashes of Alpha and Omega mixed in. Some of these things are irrelevant; women may not like negging or other elements of pick-up artistry, but they obviously work and they’re tactics, not behavioral characteristics, anyhow.
And, of course, women love superior men; the operative word there is “act” and not “superior”. Which means you have to actually be superior for any purported superiority to be attractive, they really don’t like it when you try to fake it. It’s similar to my advice to stop trying to impress women, and instead focus on developing your various strengths to the point that you are genuinely impressive without any need for exaggeration or exhibition.
It’s the difference between using a greenscreen of an impressive office library for your Zoom calls and simply having bookshelves lined with luxury editions of fine literature behind you. It takes more time and effort to accomplish the latter than to arrange for the former, but the effort is a) its own reward and b) immediately impressive without you having to say anything about it.
Pick one of these bookshelf Zoom backgrounds to give yourself an edge in this regard. Don’t worry, it’s going to work. There’s a subconscious phenomena behind this. Whenever you see a person, you associate them with their surroundings. Television crews had worked it out a long time ago, and use it to great effect to this day. When you see a person on a screen, you will tie whatever is near their face in the background to your impression about them. Putting a bookshelf in your Zoom background will make you look well-read, sophisticated and smart.
It might look impressive on camera. But it’s fake, and most women will detect this sort of fakery sooner or later, and often much faster than you imagine. So don’t fool yourself, and make a fool of yourself, by attempting to fool others.
And above all, get a grip on your inner Gamma and excise those negative behaviors!
It might be interesting for the female readers here to share their thoughts about the list, and how correct and complete it is.
Pro tip: buy and build your own printing press for leatherbound books. Then publish said books and take a picture of them. This will make the photo you take for your green screen zoom background all the more impressive. Like and follow.
That’s a solid list. I would add “talking weird” to that list. You aren’t a knight, you aren’t a mob boss from the 1920’s. Stop LARPing 24-7. There’s bound to be a list of words and phrases that out you as a weirdo: m’lady, flesh, moist, gams, young lady (said to an old lady)…
I disagree with negging as a turn-off. It’s hurtful and confusing, sure. But then when the man is nice to her she feels grateful. It doesn’t always work- lead to sex- but it isn’t really a turn-off. We’d just rather them not do it.