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Brian B's avatar

I will speak now as a ruling elder at a moderate church in a denomination known for flying pride flags;

Conservative men - get into a position of leadership, and STAY THERE! That's what the leftists do, and they infect institutions and subvert them when they do it. When conservatives run into opposition in an institution they are a part of, they throw a fit and then take their ball and go home, like spoiled children. This cedes the field to your opponents. They win everything when you do this. Schism is heresy and it is ineffective even if it weren't.

Get yourself into a leadership position, and most importantly gain yourself a broad network of support by staying fairly quiet until the time comes to speak up. Pick your battles carefully. When that time comes, be measured and calm and reasonable and gracious so that you don't alienate the moderates. This is the way. It's a long, long game (long march?) but it's the only way.

Getting yourself into a position of power and then immediately bloviating about some minor point will get you noticed and marginalized. You have to gain years of intitutional trust in order to be taken seriously in an institution that is centuries old.

For once, *for once*, play a long game.

No church is perfect. Pick a church and make it what you want it to be. Don't quit. Have a vision. Work with others and gain their trust. You can do this.

JBRChiRho's avatar

We are seeing it in my church. Young men are joining. It worries many of the older folks, who see it as a threat. But many others are watching this with joy.

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