The Ladies Dig the Humor
The laws of human behavior are more like situationally-applicable guidelines
Gammas reliably draw the wrong lessons from their social failures. For some reason, they are very reluctant to revisit their base assumptions about human behavior.
Barging in on a conversation to insert something completely unrelated is spot on for their behavior. Joke or otherwise, derailing a conversation is generally alarming and off putting.
Geez, it’s not that hard
Target.
Approach with a compliment above the neck.
Watch for IOIs
If they’re not there in five min max, move on.
If they are; escalate, add some subtle kino, and close.
If there’s a cockblock, isolate.
Your close might be sex, a date, or just a number.
Whatever.
If, during the process, the IOIs are lost, politely disengage.
If such validation is that important to you and your closings are unacceptably low despite using the law of large numbers, then work on yourself.
What is usually found is that women are a colossal time sink, so you don’t bother hunting and let them come to you.
Such masculine women are unlikely proverbs 31 material, but if you need the validation, there it is.
There are plenty of young men with potential that have never had this modeled. Today, they learn it much later than previous generations.
That’s fine.
Gammas are distinguished by the fact that they can try and try and never get this.
They mimic but don’t grow.
Ever.
So long ago, I stopped trying to help.