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Drewie's avatar

Everything they dislike always has to be a caricature because the real thing frightens them.

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High status people always observe and act, they are never their own herald of their grandeur. Even women I know who are married to high status men long term similarly see something and apply it, instead of talking about it.

Low status people need these high status people. I get stuck between observing and doing, when there’s a high status person in any situation I can follow that person. One of my family members would wash the dishes very loud, nobody ever said or did anything even though nobody liked it. That ended the second time my aunt was at a family supper, even before they were married or anything. She just quietly and naturally beat the person to the sink and earned herself the nickname “the dishes fairy.” None of us ever thought of doing that.

My husband’s side has two alphas and when neither of them will be there, you’re in for a lot of boomer girlbossing. Before I knew about the ssh I was amazed how one them just showing up was the single difference in how a party went. They just automatically and naturally know what to do and the other guys can follow. It’s so natural nobody even picks up on how they do it.

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