"Milady, may I interest you in my reproductive appendage?"
I mean that is so dumb that it might have a chance at a cosplaying event... but "May I meet you?"... Holy cow. Only super low status men ask for permission to talk to a woman. Most normal men just do.
I don't think he actually wrote this. It has that stilted quality which comes across as something approved by a committee of men who are generally uninterested in women. The style is just so generic and bland and it feels like it was perfectly composed by people whose great achievement in life was the perfect A on the sentence diagramming pop quiz in 5th grade.
What's nuts is his physical stats - he's 6'3" and a good tennis player, not good enough to qualify for a paid tournament, but good enough to win local club tournaments.
But even his height, athleticism, and billionaire status cannot overcome his SSH.
Nice, they seem like a good match, good for them! There's remarkable symmetry of features between them, and she's tall, looks kind, and if I knew nothing about them, would say she's about as attractive as him, that is, at around the same sociosexual value. Past the obvious point of making enough money to provide for and protect your wife's life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness, using wealth as an artificial 'up' of your sociosexual status will skew the bias of results toward women who value wealth more than other qualities, to the point where, if you're just going for the hottest woman your wealth can get you, you're probably getting a woman who cares ONLY about wealth and nothing else, and, therefore, has few other qualities of her own.
"May I meet you?" is actually perfect advice for someone like him, because it is literally lowering his perceived value in order to find authentic connection. So yeah, think about that. Of course it isn't good advice for young strugglers. But it is good advice for wealthy men looking for authentic connection.
What you've just written is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever read. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone reading this comment page is now dumber for having sern it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
Can/may ...instant buzz kill. It's so cringe. Dated a guy and it was going well for few months. His approach to slip in a first kiss was:"Can I kiss you?" Wuuut? This isn't a Jane Austen novel. Yeah, didn't go anywhere.
Difference is, a man standing right next to you can just lean in and kiss you, whereas, "May I meet you?" genuinely requires the woman to do something, that is, physically move herself somewhere to meet up.
Yeah "may I meet you" is a terrible thing to say. Whenever I approach a woman, I always say, "You remind me of my daughter back home....." (Braveheart reference)
Does anyone understand how a woman decides if she’s attracted to a man in three seconds? I’m a woman myself, but I’ve been scratching my head about this ever since I first read it.
Is it based on body language? How should I know which box I’ve put a man in?
It's automatic, subconscious and intuitive. We collect a ton of information, just from living, about what kinds of people look, act, dress, etc a certain way, and what that means, and we use that data to arrive at a conclusion about someone before we know anything about them. Men do it, too - it's called "first impressions", and everybody does it. It just matters in this context because men are trying to make a good first impression on women, and when they fail it's hard to recover.
The two most basic boxes are "Like" and "Don't Like". You'll know which one a man falls into.
I find that just with people in general, there is a very tiny subset, male or female, with whom I just click. It tends to be almost instantaneous, but there's a certain quality of eye contact where it feels as though you've known the person for ages, even if you've never met before and aren't likely to encounter them again. It's a different experience from regular attraction, though.
90% of communication is non-verbal. Nothing highlights that truth more than dealing w a loved one w dementia. But I digress. My father taught my sister and me that women's intuition was God's gift to counter male physicality. Being 173 Airbornne and surviving Dok Tau, he was blunt in saying a woman couldn't physically beat a man so The Lord gave us intuition. Trust your gut was beaten into our psyche at an early age...w a few other tips. He said what got women into trouble was second guessing that intuition. Beating a dead horse to elaborate there. News speaks for itself. So if a man can't show strength in the most basic interactions of asking a girl out or a kiss, then how the hell can a girl trust him to protect her and their brood later with the bigger threats. It's really that simple.
I think it's an overall vibe thing. How a guy dresses, speaks, body language etc. In that short of time your brain will have processed a lot of information and made a decision.
As I understand it, women have high capacity for rationalizing. You'll decide if you like him or not, and your brain will fill in the why as required. If you feel you don't like a guy, it will be enormously difficult for him to convince you otherwise. Which is why the best advice for a guy is to move on at that point.
Do you want to get closer to him, or do you want to step away? Can you take your eyes off him? How does he smell? Do you want him to notice you/ make eye contact? Body language, appearance, scent, and probably some other factors all combine to give you an instant impression.
Some people just automatically draw your eye and your attention. Others automatically make you wish you were somewhere else. The vast majority elicit neither response, but that doesn't mean you can't become attracted given time and opportunity, it just means they aren't repulsive or don't register in your mind yet as potential partner material.
"may I meet you" as the first words of ACTUALLY MEETING someone is beyond retarded.
The billionaire's advice was meant for online communication, but even then is weak without being backed up by a large fortune or fame.
"Milady, may I interest you in my reproductive appendage?"
I mean that is so dumb that it might have a chance at a cosplaying event... but "May I meet you?"... Holy cow. Only super low status men ask for permission to talk to a woman. Most normal men just do.
"May I meet you?" is something Borat would say.
60% of the time it works every time.
You miss wrote "0.6%"
I don't think he actually wrote this. It has that stilted quality which comes across as something approved by a committee of men who are generally uninterested in women. The style is just so generic and bland and it feels like it was perfectly composed by people whose great achievement in life was the perfect A on the sentence diagramming pop quiz in 5th grade.
That’s the guys second wife? That’s the “trophy” wife?
SSH just got etched in stone.
What's nuts is his physical stats - he's 6'3" and a good tennis player, not good enough to qualify for a paid tournament, but good enough to win local club tournaments.
But even his height, athleticism, and billionaire status cannot overcome his SSH.
Nice, they seem like a good match, good for them! There's remarkable symmetry of features between them, and she's tall, looks kind, and if I knew nothing about them, would say she's about as attractive as him, that is, at around the same sociosexual value. Past the obvious point of making enough money to provide for and protect your wife's life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness, using wealth as an artificial 'up' of your sociosexual status will skew the bias of results toward women who value wealth more than other qualities, to the point where, if you're just going for the hottest woman your wealth can get you, you're probably getting a woman who cares ONLY about wealth and nothing else, and, therefore, has few other qualities of her own.
"May I meet you?" is actually perfect advice for someone like him, because it is literally lowering his perceived value in order to find authentic connection. So yeah, think about that. Of course it isn't good advice for young strugglers. But it is good advice for wealthy men looking for authentic connection.
What you've just written is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever read. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone reading this comment page is now dumber for having sern it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
The ppl in his world suck up to him and put up with his nonsense because they all want something from him.
He doesn't say whether or not his approach got him a date. Just said he met people.
" it is good advice for wealthy men looking for authentic connection"
Don't be gay, its not good for you.
Even an omega like doesn't say that if talking to a woman. If.
He found his own words...compelling.
Can/may ...instant buzz kill. It's so cringe. Dated a guy and it was going well for few months. His approach to slip in a first kiss was:"Can I kiss you?" Wuuut? This isn't a Jane Austen novel. Yeah, didn't go anywhere.
Difference is, a man standing right next to you can just lean in and kiss you, whereas, "May I meet you?" genuinely requires the woman to do something, that is, physically move herself somewhere to meet up.
Yeah "may I meet you" is a terrible thing to say. Whenever I approach a woman, I always say, "You remind me of my daughter back home....." (Braveheart reference)
Do you also tip your fedora?
My husband's reverse-nod and "hey" still makes me giddy after 15 years together. It's so simple, guys.
Does anyone understand how a woman decides if she’s attracted to a man in three seconds? I’m a woman myself, but I’ve been scratching my head about this ever since I first read it.
Is it based on body language? How should I know which box I’ve put a man in?
It's your gut feeling.
Other women can better describe how your feelings feel, but if you ever find a man creepy, that's a rejection response.
It's automatic, subconscious and intuitive. We collect a ton of information, just from living, about what kinds of people look, act, dress, etc a certain way, and what that means, and we use that data to arrive at a conclusion about someone before we know anything about them. Men do it, too - it's called "first impressions", and everybody does it. It just matters in this context because men are trying to make a good first impression on women, and when they fail it's hard to recover.
The two most basic boxes are "Like" and "Don't Like". You'll know which one a man falls into.
I find that just with people in general, there is a very tiny subset, male or female, with whom I just click. It tends to be almost instantaneous, but there's a certain quality of eye contact where it feels as though you've known the person for ages, even if you've never met before and aren't likely to encounter them again. It's a different experience from regular attraction, though.
90% of communication is non-verbal. Nothing highlights that truth more than dealing w a loved one w dementia. But I digress. My father taught my sister and me that women's intuition was God's gift to counter male physicality. Being 173 Airbornne and surviving Dok Tau, he was blunt in saying a woman couldn't physically beat a man so The Lord gave us intuition. Trust your gut was beaten into our psyche at an early age...w a few other tips. He said what got women into trouble was second guessing that intuition. Beating a dead horse to elaborate there. News speaks for itself. So if a man can't show strength in the most basic interactions of asking a girl out or a kiss, then how the hell can a girl trust him to protect her and their brood later with the bigger threats. It's really that simple.
I think it's an overall vibe thing. How a guy dresses, speaks, body language etc. In that short of time your brain will have processed a lot of information and made a decision.
As I understand it, women have high capacity for rationalizing. You'll decide if you like him or not, and your brain will fill in the why as required. If you feel you don't like a guy, it will be enormously difficult for him to convince you otherwise. Which is why the best advice for a guy is to move on at that point.
Do you want to get closer to him, or do you want to step away? Can you take your eyes off him? How does he smell? Do you want him to notice you/ make eye contact? Body language, appearance, scent, and probably some other factors all combine to give you an instant impression.
Some people just automatically draw your eye and your attention. Others automatically make you wish you were somewhere else. The vast majority elicit neither response, but that doesn't mean you can't become attracted given time and opportunity, it just means they aren't repulsive or don't register in your mind yet as potential partner material.
Interesting. Thanks.
Just be a fun person to be around, not that hard, crack a joke and be positive. People gravitate to that
This "May I meet you?" question only makes sense if you're talking to someone online.
Oh man, imagine the skeletons in his closet ,along with potential lawsuits.