Life in the Real World
Three things that young women would do well to understand
I was asked what a man should tell his daughters to cut through the constant barrage of propaganda and disinformation about the importance of having it all, doing it all, and the rest of the false assumptions that feminists have tried to instill in young women for the last 50 years.
Here are my three points about life in the real world for young women:
From the time you turn 15, you have ten years to lock down the best man you can possibly attract. Your options will continue to get worse every year after 25.
Every man with whom you are involved in any romantic way prior to marriage will detract from your perceived value to varying degrees. The amount it detracts varies based on a) his quality and b) your behavior.
Men don’t think like you do so don’t project your own thoughts and feelings onto them. They don't care at all about education or career credentials. And their attraction to you is not increased by knowing that other men are too.
Those are the rules of reality. Play accordingly.
It only seems fair to offer three points to young men as well.
Women don’t think like you do, so don’t project your own thoughts and feelings onto them. They don’t care about acts of service, financial support, loyalty, or devotion because they take such things for granted. And your attraction to them has no power to create attraction to you.
Women are naturally attracted to less than one in five men. They don’t even see men to whom they are not attracted. Look around you. If you’re not in the top 15 percent, then you need to improve your game.
A woman decides if she’s attracted to you in less than three seconds. Everything you do is viewed from the perspective of potentially disqualifying you from a positive decision she’s already made. So if she’s showing signs of interest, stop trying to make the sale and assume that she’s already sold. Women don’t realize it, but this is what they actually mean by “confidence”.
Those are the rules of reality. Play accordingly.
One of the things that women have an incredibly hard time grasping is point #3: He doesn't care if other men also drool after you, it does nothing for him. Because women don't understand this they flaunt their bodies online, thinking that if a guy sees how many likes she gets he'll come to think she's hot and he'll be attracted to her.
Also hiding bodycount is totally impossible. It might work on deltas, I don't know. But it's like a drug addict trying to act normal in public. Everyone can smell it. It's even obvious via text. Just like with men women's status is not about what others perceive it's about what you are. A woman trying to hide her bodycount is like a man trying to hide the fact he's broke. The fact that we're playing along doesn't mean we're fooled.