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CL's avatar

I had the unique experience of being wooed by a high status man while breaking up with a low status man. The emotional rollercoaster was difficult to manage as I'd concurrently receive texts that were powerfully euphoric and devastatingly brutal. It strained the limits of my mind.

LS - you're mean to everyone. That's why we had so much trouble. I've never had someone make me as mad as you did

HS - you're everything a woman should be. No one could compare

LS - i only meant I was worried about your weight because if you ever get pregnant it could kill our baby

HS - you are going to be a great mother and wife someday I saw that right away

LS - I've been busting my ass and you're so ungrateful.

HS - i don't even think someone as beautiful as you should work

The binary SSH is helpful to women because high status men sexualize but low status men dehumanize. (Pedestals are a form of dehumanizing). The full SSH is difficult to grasp from our experience but knowing deltas and bravos exist gives women a chance to find a partner because it opens up our options. Women will delusionally chase a disinterested alpha to avoid settling for a cruel gamma.

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Son of Winter's avatar

Most gammas want the power of being an alpha, without providing all the things an alpha does to those around him.

A secret king doesn't give praise or loyalty.

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