He Hates Me
Women are jealous and insecure about high-status men
One of the more confusing aspects of being a high-status man is learning how to navigate the unpredictable jealousies of the various women in one’s life. I sometimes suspect that the habitual unfaithfulness of Alphas is exacerbated by the fact that they are always being accused of cheating, or wanting to cheat, when they hadn’t even contemplated doing anything objectionable.
Female paranoia is usually more hidden on a daily basis than male insecurity, but it can get out of control in dangerous ways when it suddenly flares up out of nowhere. Some Deltas and Gammas might imagine it would be flattering to have a woman be proprietary and jealous of them, but it’s actually quite alarming to have a woman shrieking at you over nothing as if she’s gone completely insane, and it’s not at all flattering to have a girl hitting you with her high heels while you’re trying to drive because she doesn’t like the way another girl said hello to you.
At that point, it doesn’t matter how beautiful she is. You just want out.
This instinct is so strong if you already have abandonment issues. Women tend to take the extreme bad from past relationships and overlay them onto their current one. This is predictably disastrous as you can imagine. I suppose this is why the less than 15 body count guideline Vox has put forth is helpful. It would be incredibly difficult as a woman to have experienced that much "betrayal" and maintain emotional continence.
Years ago, I spent a lot of time going through a blog (the feminine woman) on how to be more high value feminine and the 2 takeaways were to 1) learn to be vulnerable not needy and 2) recognize while a woman will become engrossed in her relationship, high value men only become absorbed in their job/career/mission and the relationship is just one of those things it supports. You still have the fears and worries but you can manage your reactions much better. I've found men are very understanding if you acknowledge 1) not all your feelings are valid/make sense but 2) you have them.
Show me a hot girl and I'll show you a man who is tired of banging her