"My favorite form of female beauty is the kind that looks pretty, but accessible, in jeans and a t-shirt, or in a oversized Norwegian sweater, but goes nuclear when weaponized."
Is that not all forms of female beauty? What distinguishes that form from the other kinds?
The sexual anxiety and seething jealousy leading to infidelity when a delta/ gamma gets his hands on a high status woman. It takes a Baddie to pull (and handle) a Baddie.
Off topic. This article may be of interest to discuss. Not a video. To summarize the author points out a global trend of women moving more left and men moving to the right and it correlation with smart phone adaption in 2008.
I hate them for this behavior. What value was there to be had in the about face? She decided you were worthless until her competition validated you, and then approached.
I will channel my inner @sirhamster and answer the question directly.
"What value was there to be had in the about face?"
Grace. When you show kindness and forgiveness to someone who doesn't deserve it, your actions and words elevate everyone around you. Not just the person given grace, but yourself and anyone merely listening or standing nearby.
This is why you fail with women. You hate them for just being women.
Imagine the fat girl that you never noticed in high school, and she slims out and looks great now at 25. Do you think she thinks it’s fair that you notice her now and not before?
A man is invisible when alone, unless he has extraordinary looks or charisma or situational status. The same man with a beautiful woman at his side is suddenly not invisible. This is how reality works. Get used to it.
And THAT is why you have not been found BY a woman to be worthy of her time and investment!
Women are BUILT (made by God, if you wish) to look for a competent protective man who can provide for her and their kids. Her genes get passed down IF her mate can keep them alive. This is not reasoned decision making; it's inherent in the sexes! Alas that this inherent knowledge has been censored OUT of modern men aad women; part of the destruction of our people!
In a crowd of many business men, there are so many 'options' to try to 'display' in front of. Just as a lioness or mare or bitch will 'sort through' all the possible males around, trying to identify the one SHE might be able to rely on, whether for family or biz success, this woman misjudged Vox. This sign this woman missed because Space Bunny was not present was that Vox IS a high-value target.
Salix, do you really think women do NOT have a very finely honed radar -- even if they don't know they have it -- for men who might be worth her investment ... and also so they can avoid men like you who are sour and jealous and angry at women, even in a business setting?
I'm sure Vox had no sense, no inkling, that he was not 'putting out vibes' hoping for a woman's attention. He was focused on business, not hoping some woman would 'display' for him. Maybe consider what's on YOUR mind in a biz setting?
Vox has declared me gamma, which means I have no social standing here. This is not about my success or lack thereof with women though, but contempt for their behavior. I have no desire to fuck horses; humans are supposed to rise above their base bestial natures. Somewhen along the way we stopped applying that expectation to women.
I’m an Omega which Vox ranks below Gamma, yet I have pleasant conversations with the other commenters here. Social standing doesn’t matter here as long as you have good ideas. Your ideas are shit. Being contemptuous of half the population is always a shit idea. Your contempt won’t harm the 50% of women, unless you actually do become violent, but it will harm yourself. Don’t let your intelligence and self righteousness get in the way of your life.
Guys who find a girl via a dating app and discover that the photo was misleading and she's 300 pounds are gonna ghost her. Shaming them about their beauty standards will get you about as far as what you just wrote above - nowhere.
New information produces new reactions. In every sphere of life, and not just with women.
And any social system or expectation that relies on disregarding the inherent functioning of the sexes is doomed.
My sigma brother, the people are hating on you here because there is only room for one sigma in this substack.
Edit: There. That's social currency that will allow you to survive the night. I recommend saving up for a calf and avoid spending it on goats. Once you buy a few calfs you can go up to one of the fathers and trade them in for a wife. That'll automatically promote you to delta.
And you aren’t rising above your base bestial instincts. Rising above your base instincts would be accepting women for what they are. You choose to hate women because they don’t conform to your expectations. That’s hardly noble detachment.
"I have no desire to fuck horses; humans are supposed to rise above their base bestial natures. Somewhen along the way we stopped applying that expectation to women."
Humans rise above bestial natures? Since when? What the fuck?
No man is planning to 'rise above' liking boobs or sports. And non-crazy women still are planning to be baby-carrying beasts.
The only thing you're telling us is that you're failing to get a girl, and you're bitter. Just as communists too lazy to hold a job, they're arguing against capitalism.
You never had any social standing here. Who the fuck are you? I have no idea and neither does anyone else.
But your low social status and your lack of success with women is obvious due to the burning nature of your bitterness and your incoherent attempts to justify it.
You have declared yourself Gamma by using an anecdote about a business meeting as an excuse to pontificate about women's immoral sexual behavior. What is wrong with you?
The lack of your standing has nothing to do with the label that Vox gave you. Even before Vox did so, NOBODY liked your comment or gave positive feedback. Everyone thinks you're wrong because of the content of your comment, not because our host has given you a label.
The problem with your method of thinking, other than it defaults negative, is that it does nothing to improve your material, social, romantic and emotional life. Right or wrong, you have to deal with the world the way it is; not the way you wish it to be. You can either accept and use the way things are to your benefit, or spend your time lamenting how the world isn't the way you think it should be. Only one of those ways of thinking are tangibly useful.
You also became a safe person to interact with. Since if she so much as smiles the wrong way at an average guy, she could expect some creepy love letter in the morning followed by a quick devaluation if he were a gamma, or hurt feelings if he were a delta. But when she saw how hot your wife was she knew you could act normally around her and she wouldn't have to worry about acquiring a stalker.
Women haven't learnt which men are competent or not. How could they? If they haven't seen the guys play sports or paid attention to who the guys go to for which problems, then they're oblivious. Women don't know. Women gossip about people to learn who's who.
The Red Pill is a bitter pill. The best reason to hate women is that their primary political goal according to voting records is to have the right to murder their own children. More babies have been killed by mothers since Roe v Waid than soldiers have died in all the wars in history combined. In a few more decades abortion will eclipse all civilian casualties as well.
Yet, this female genocide still is not enough to justify hatred of all women. But it does put into perspective the total selfishness of Gamma hatred of women for rejecting them. Seriously, if this applies to anyone reading this: get over yourself.
It has nothing to spite. Your self worth is your responsability not other peoples.
In the eyes of others you have to prove your value if you want them to appreciate you. Nobody likes you just for "being you" except your mom. And that doesn't really say much.
Its nothing to do with self worth. Your focus is on the wrong note of the story. The approach *only* after recognition of stake by a rival is wickedness. The only value to be gained was at the expense of one that had already made investment that she had rejected.
No, she just found him attractive after seeing his wife. Whether it's wickedness or just plain awe, there's really no way of knowing. Only the author knows the "why" and that's assuming he cares if it even mattered.
She didn't find me attractive. She wasn't there for that. She realized that I was much more likely to be a man of substance, and therefore someone she should know, than she'd previously observed.
We are operating from different moral universes then. That he *has* a wife should render his attractiveness irrelevant to her. She was being a slut in not gracefully recognizing her error and writing it off. Women behaving like homewreckers is wrong, and a healthy society shames them for doing so.
Assuming he can find a woman who would be willing to bear him any. The seething rage with which he stormed into the comments here suggests that his prospects are dim.
This really can't be overstated. Attractive women are used to certain types of responses from most men. Seeing Vox comfortably with a gorgeous woman tells her instantly that he's essentially safe to be around, and she probably wanted to get to know Spacebunny, as well.
You are projecting here. The given context is a professional conference not a swingers party. The woman did what she was there to do, she judged value for professional investment. Check your assumptions
Unfortunately it’s not less of a flex, it’s a hindrance. Did this guy just give up or something? Not much of a leader, if he can improve himself but his woman won’t get with the program… You can see the man’s social credit score dip with every introduction at the cocktail party.
I've been dealing with this sort of thing for nearly 40 years. The only time the Sigma isn't underestimated is when he's with a woman. It always forces people to recalibrate.
This comment is super helpful. I don't see how people interact with my husband when I'm not there, and he doesn't bother telling me most of the time. I always assumed that men could "see" him without my being there, though if they can't then that does explain a lot. Since I'm apparently that important to his success, I'll have to up my game.
Blondes look great in red.
"My favorite form of female beauty is the kind that looks pretty, but accessible, in jeans and a t-shirt, or in a oversized Norwegian sweater, but goes nuclear when weaponized."
Is that not all forms of female beauty? What distinguishes that form from the other kinds?
Just another day in Transylvania.
Beauty is the power of women and power the beauty of men.
it ties nicely to the previous article about Low status males chewing more then they can swallow. https://open.substack.com/pub/sigmagame/p/be-careful-what-you-wish?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6jcbxn
The sexual anxiety and seething jealousy leading to infidelity when a delta/ gamma gets his hands on a high status woman. It takes a Baddie to pull (and handle) a Baddie.
What is it with women in thick wool sweaters? I love that too.
It must be the contrast of the bulk and coarseness of the sweater material against the slender feminine figure and delicate skin.
More like woolen gift-wrapping hiding a gift underneath
Gah, I love this couple 🥰 She is the bomb
Off topic. This article may be of interest to discuss. Not a video. To summarize the author points out a global trend of women moving more left and men moving to the right and it correlation with smart phone adaption in 2008.
https://x.com/IterIntellectus/status/2012220254504530043
There's a documentary about the cause of this, it's called The Social Dilemma.
I hate them for this behavior. What value was there to be had in the about face? She decided you were worthless until her competition validated you, and then approached.
That is spite, and should rightly be condemned.
The ceaseless pursuit of status.
I will channel my inner @sirhamster and answer the question directly.
"What value was there to be had in the about face?"
Grace. When you show kindness and forgiveness to someone who doesn't deserve it, your actions and words elevate everyone around you. Not just the person given grace, but yourself and anyone merely listening or standing nearby.
This is why you fail with women. You hate them for just being women.
Imagine the fat girl that you never noticed in high school, and she slims out and looks great now at 25. Do you think she thinks it’s fair that you notice her now and not before?
A man is invisible when alone, unless he has extraordinary looks or charisma or situational status. The same man with a beautiful woman at his side is suddenly not invisible. This is how reality works. Get used to it.
And THAT is why you have not been found BY a woman to be worthy of her time and investment!
Women are BUILT (made by God, if you wish) to look for a competent protective man who can provide for her and their kids. Her genes get passed down IF her mate can keep them alive. This is not reasoned decision making; it's inherent in the sexes! Alas that this inherent knowledge has been censored OUT of modern men aad women; part of the destruction of our people!
In a crowd of many business men, there are so many 'options' to try to 'display' in front of. Just as a lioness or mare or bitch will 'sort through' all the possible males around, trying to identify the one SHE might be able to rely on, whether for family or biz success, this woman misjudged Vox. This sign this woman missed because Space Bunny was not present was that Vox IS a high-value target.
Salix, do you really think women do NOT have a very finely honed radar -- even if they don't know they have it -- for men who might be worth her investment ... and also so they can avoid men like you who are sour and jealous and angry at women, even in a business setting?
I'm sure Vox had no sense, no inkling, that he was not 'putting out vibes' hoping for a woman's attention. He was focused on business, not hoping some woman would 'display' for him. Maybe consider what's on YOUR mind in a biz setting?
Vox has declared me gamma, which means I have no social standing here. This is not about my success or lack thereof with women though, but contempt for their behavior. I have no desire to fuck horses; humans are supposed to rise above their base bestial natures. Somewhen along the way we stopped applying that expectation to women.
I’m an Omega which Vox ranks below Gamma, yet I have pleasant conversations with the other commenters here. Social standing doesn’t matter here as long as you have good ideas. Your ideas are shit. Being contemptuous of half the population is always a shit idea. Your contempt won’t harm the 50% of women, unless you actually do become violent, but it will harm yourself. Don’t let your intelligence and self righteousness get in the way of your life.
Guys who find a girl via a dating app and discover that the photo was misleading and she's 300 pounds are gonna ghost her. Shaming them about their beauty standards will get you about as far as what you just wrote above - nowhere.
New information produces new reactions. In every sphere of life, and not just with women.
And any social system or expectation that relies on disregarding the inherent functioning of the sexes is doomed.
My sigma brother, the people are hating on you here because there is only room for one sigma in this substack.
Edit: There. That's social currency that will allow you to survive the night. I recommend saving up for a calf and avoid spending it on goats. Once you buy a few calfs you can go up to one of the fathers and trade them in for a wife. That'll automatically promote you to delta.
yup, I have no idea who that guy is either.
Gay
You would be gamma whether Vox said it or not.
And you aren’t rising above your base bestial instincts. Rising above your base instincts would be accepting women for what they are. You choose to hate women because they don’t conform to your expectations. That’s hardly noble detachment.
"I have no desire to fuck horses; humans are supposed to rise above their base bestial natures. Somewhen along the way we stopped applying that expectation to women."
Humans rise above bestial natures? Since when? What the fuck?
No man is planning to 'rise above' liking boobs or sports. And non-crazy women still are planning to be baby-carrying beasts.
The only thing you're telling us is that you're failing to get a girl, and you're bitter. Just as communists too lazy to hold a job, they're arguing against capitalism.
You declared yourself a gamma with your initial post. Vox was merely commenting on what everyone reading here could clearly ascertain.
You never had any social standing here. Who the fuck are you? I have no idea and neither does anyone else.
But your low social status and your lack of success with women is obvious due to the burning nature of your bitterness and your incoherent attempts to justify it.
You have declared yourself Gamma by using an anecdote about a business meeting as an excuse to pontificate about women's immoral sexual behavior. What is wrong with you?
The lack of your standing has nothing to do with the label that Vox gave you. Even before Vox did so, NOBODY liked your comment or gave positive feedback. Everyone thinks you're wrong because of the content of your comment, not because our host has given you a label.
"Vox has declared me gamma, which means I have no social standing here"
Why do you have to focus on the status aspect?People pointed out the flaw in your mindset yet you focus on being called a gamma.
Also, sorry to break your other dreams, but no horse is gonna bang you either.
The problem with your method of thinking, other than it defaults negative, is that it does nothing to improve your material, social, romantic and emotional life. Right or wrong, you have to deal with the world the way it is; not the way you wish it to be. You can either accept and use the way things are to your benefit, or spend your time lamenting how the world isn't the way you think it should be. Only one of those ways of thinking are tangibly useful.
You might as well have a GAMMA stamped on your forehead. Your perspective is self-harmful.
Literally everyone does this in one context or another. You do it too, just with regards to different criteria.
It's not spite, it's just competition and calibration.
You also became a safe person to interact with. Since if she so much as smiles the wrong way at an average guy, she could expect some creepy love letter in the morning followed by a quick devaluation if he were a gamma, or hurt feelings if he were a delta. But when she saw how hot your wife was she knew you could act normally around her and she wouldn't have to worry about acquiring a stalker.
You wouldn't hate them if you were in Vox's shoes. See if you can get better shoes. Lift, bro.
Do you also hate a cat for licking its paws? Hating someone for behaving according to their nature is ridiculous and sad.
Women haven't learnt which men are competent or not. How could they? If they haven't seen the guys play sports or paid attention to who the guys go to for which problems, then they're oblivious. Women don't know. Women gossip about people to learn who's who.
"The Red Pill doesn’t exist so men will hate women. It exists so men won’t hate women for what they can never be to them." - Rollo Tomassi
The Red Pill is a bitter pill. The best reason to hate women is that their primary political goal according to voting records is to have the right to murder their own children. More babies have been killed by mothers since Roe v Waid than soldiers have died in all the wars in history combined. In a few more decades abortion will eclipse all civilian casualties as well.
Yet, this female genocide still is not enough to justify hatred of all women. But it does put into perspective the total selfishness of Gamma hatred of women for rejecting them. Seriously, if this applies to anyone reading this: get over yourself.
It has nothing to spite. Your self worth is your responsability not other peoples.
In the eyes of others you have to prove your value if you want them to appreciate you. Nobody likes you just for "being you" except your mom. And that doesn't really say much.
Its nothing to do with self worth. Your focus is on the wrong note of the story. The approach *only* after recognition of stake by a rival is wickedness. The only value to be gained was at the expense of one that had already made investment that she had rejected.
Salix, you are retarded. You're making assumptions about story characters not inevidence.
Judgments are made quickly on incomplete info *constantly.* Error corrction on new information is not something to hate.
The fact that her error correction triggered on seeing competition is what's instructive.
No, she just found him attractive after seeing his wife. Whether it's wickedness or just plain awe, there's really no way of knowing. Only the author knows the "why" and that's assuming he cares if it even mattered.
She didn't find me attractive. She wasn't there for that. She realized that I was much more likely to be a man of substance, and therefore someone she should know, than she'd previously observed.
We are operating from different moral universes then. That he *has* a wife should render his attractiveness irrelevant to her. She was being a slut in not gracefully recognizing her error and writing it off. Women behaving like homewreckers is wrong, and a healthy society shames them for doing so.
What is wrong with you?
Your word spell is meaningless in this (in fact every) context.
Grow up!
I hate men who retreat to muh morals to justify their low status. Your sons will be losers unless they reject you utterly.
Assuming he can find a woman who would be willing to bear him any. The seething rage with which he stormed into the comments here suggests that his prospects are dim.
No, you're bitter and bordering on insane. This had NOTHING to do with attraction or homewrecking.
She realized that I was likely a player who had either a) connections or b) money, I wasn't a wannabe or a nobody who was going to hit on her.
This really can't be overstated. Attractive women are used to certain types of responses from most men. Seeing Vox comfortably with a gorgeous woman tells her instantly that he's essentially safe to be around, and she probably wanted to get to know Spacebunny, as well.
You are projecting here. The given context is a professional conference not a swingers party. The woman did what she was there to do, she judged value for professional investment. Check your assumptions
obviously it's not a swingers party, if it were there would have been no attractive women
You make one wrong move around ppl like him and all of a sudden its a moral issue of cosmic significance.
It is definitely a bigger flex to be an average guy with a 9 ( who is all over you ) than be 6 five jacked and have your humpty dumpty by your side.
Unfortunately it’s not less of a flex, it’s a hindrance. Did this guy just give up or something? Not much of a leader, if he can improve himself but his woman won’t get with the program… You can see the man’s social credit score dip with every introduction at the cocktail party.
Hilarious. Inevitable. You should’ve just handed her a script of what her reaction would be when she saw Space Bunny.
I've been dealing with this sort of thing for nearly 40 years. The only time the Sigma isn't underestimated is when he's with a woman. It always forces people to recalibrate.
This comment is super helpful. I don't see how people interact with my husband when I'm not there, and he doesn't bother telling me most of the time. I always assumed that men could "see" him without my being there, though if they can't then that does explain a lot. Since I'm apparently that important to his success, I'll have to up my game.