SHOT: She informed him she is filing for divorce and he can have the kids and she won’t come after him for anything.
CHASER TWO MONTHS LATER: Delta got a lawyer. Delta went through a horrible rebuilding. Wife found out the other guy lived with his handicapped mom. Tried to move in with her sister. Sister denied her. She asked to come back to the Delta
She gave a sob story which I believe is a total lie that the guy sexually assaulted her…when that was the whole reason we all know she went down there. Desperate Delta turns white knight. Takes her back. Reverts back to the old patterns.
Totally pathetic and totally delta. She clearly doesn’t respect him. He constantly needs her attention for reassurance. Just when he was finally acting like a man before she came back. Getting himself together, working out, getting his finances together. Ending the video games. Getting the kids on a decent schedule.
I am not sure if it is true for most deltas but in this case it appears the delta places far more importance on his relationship with his pedestaled whale of a wife than he does the well-being of his own children. It is frustrating and sad to see, and reminds me giving relationship advice to deltas is a total waste of time.
They never learn.
There is very, very little higher-status men can do for Deltas when it comes to their relations with the fair sex. Every Alpha very well knows what it’s like to have a Delta, whether in his hierarchy or out of it, explaining to him that the Delta knows and understands women much better than a man who has vastly more, and more successful, experience with women.
For some reason, Deltas always assume that their general competence with things somehow translates into competence with women, despite centuries of evidence to the contrary.
“She’s a 10 to me and you just don’t understand her,” are the famous last words of many a Delta in a relationship that is observably heading for the rocks. The truth is that she’s not a 10, she’s lying to the Delta, and he’s literally the last individual on Earth capable of recognizing her behavior for what it is.
For the benefit of good, decent, well-meaning men everywhere, here is a brief dictionary to translate from femmesprache to Delta:
I was sexually assaulted = I had sex with him.
I was date-raped = I had sex with him.
I was raped = I had sex with him.
He’s… a friend = I had sex with him.
He’s a stalker = He’s mad because I stopped having sex with him
I love you, but I’m not in love with you = I want to have sex with him
Now, this is a bit of a simplification, but we’re trying to hit the Deltas over the head with the hammer of distaff reality here, hence the heavy rhetorical approach.
This is certainly not to say that all women who say they were raped or otherwise attacked by men are lying. If they’re telling a police officer or a judge, and not a potential romantic interest, there is at least a six percent chance that they were actually the victim of a crime, as 5.7 percent of all reported rapes and attempted rapes are convincing enough to result in an arrest, while 0.7 percent result in a conviction.
However, it is a proven scientific fact that zero percent of all rapes and sexual assaults by former husbands, boyfriends, and supposed stalkers reported to Delta Males by a tearful woman in whom the Delta Male is very, very interested ever happened. In fact, of all the things that never happened, these crimes never happened the most.
One thing high-status men know that low-status men don’t is that women lie about sex. They relentlessly lie about it as well as about everything that might perhaps be tangentially relevant to it or interpreted as possibly leading up to it. The usual response of a high-status man to a woman’s tearful and heart-rending Wounded Bird story is to laugh at it, which is not-infrequently followed by the woman’s shameless admission that she was just trying to get a reaction out of him.
The Delta, of course, is enraged and vowing to defend and protect the poor victimized Wounded Bird with his life, which is exactly the response the Wounded Bird is hoping to provoke.
Sidenote: if you happen to know a woman who has genuinely been violently raped by a stranger, then you will immediately recognize the difference between a real victim of a crime and a Wounded Bird looking for a White Knight response. For one thing, real victims don’t tend to suddenly reveal their sad and terrible histories out of nowhere when they’re in the middle of trying to extricate themselves from a sticky situation.
Anyhow, there isn’t much point in writing this, since the Deltas, Gammas, and Omegas are going to ignore it anyhow. They are putty in the hands of the fair sex, and they always will be. If you’re a good friend, you won’t try to save them, you’ll just be sure to be around to pick up the pieces after the Wounded Bird detonates the Delta’s well-meaning heart.
It looks like a young nephew is turning into a Delta on this point.
About to turn 18, and is entangled with a 16 year old cliche of girl that pulls every Wounded Bird trick in the book on him.
And he falls for it over and over. Catches her red handed hanging out with other dudes all the time, and yet has no clue.
I've wondered if the fact he won't listen or accept the facts in front of his eyes is because he's a teenager.
After this post, it's quite possible he's a delta.
he's over 6' and not a bad looking kid, but he is behaving in this respect like the described Delta.
It looks like a young nephew is turning into a Delta on this point.
About to turn 18, and is entangled with a 16 year old cliche of girl that pulls every Wounded Bird trick in the book on him.
And he falls for it over and over. Catches her red handed hanging out with other dudes all the time, and yet has no clue.
I've wondered if the fact he won't listen or accept the facts in front of his eyes is because he's a teenager.
After this post, it's quite possible he's a delta.
he's over 6' and not a bad looking kid, but he is behaving in this respect like the described Delta.